勇于面对失败的人生 如何坦然面对自己的失败

谢谢你们邀请我回答问题，也感谢我的朋友帮助我翻译。

作为一名职业篮球运动员，对于我来说，传球失误、投篮失准、防守失位或者错过进攻时机，这些都意味着“失败”。

事实上，我知道我每场比赛都会犯一些错误，我的赛场表现从不是十全十美的。但是这些“失败”对我来说更像一种经验：如果再遇到这样的情况，我该怎么做，我该如何迅速地做出反应。

某种意义上，这是一条迅速提升自己的好途径。

我可以理解你的感受：在我刚进NBA打球的那年，每当我观看自己的比赛回放时，我都觉得自己的表现糟糕透顶。这种情绪让我在赛前倍感压力，甚至不知道该如何去打一场新的比赛。但是我很快便摆脱了这种困扰。

在生活中，我们总是倾向于展现自己优秀的一面：“看，我做到这件事，我成功了！”但是为了进步，我们也不得不认识到自己的不足，从而进一步完善自我，追求更佳的状态。

现在的我，已经能够全面的认识到自己的优势与不足，甚至有时候，我更愿意去面对自己“糟糕”的一面：在自我批评、自我反省这件事上，我想很少有人比我还苛刻。

对于我来说，突破自我、追求卓越是永远的主题。

Thanks for inviting. And thanks to my friend for translation.

As a professional basketball player, for me, the failure could be a bad pass, a bad shot, the reason I missed a shot or a rotation on defense, whatever it may be.

In fact, I know my game is never perfect; I make a mistake every game. So it's just a matter of getting into my head of knowing, OK, if I'm in that situation again, what to do, knowing what read to make next time.

It's a learning experience, everything for sure.

I know your feeling. In the first year that I played in NBA, I always felt terrible when I saw the watching film. I was also stressed before starting a new game, and didn’t know how to play on the court. But I got rid of it soon.

We all know someone always wants to see the good to be able to see, “OK, well, this is what works, this is the success that I had doing this or whatever it may be.” But always seeing the bad because we want to improve, we want to get better at it as much as possible.

For me, I like to see the good and the bad of myself now. Sometimes I look at probably the bad more than anything and I feel like nobody critiques themselves more than I criticize myself.